Why settle for anything less?

The very best care for LGBTQ+ families

Evidence Based, Trauma Informed

Expert fertility care designed for queer, trans, and solo parent families

Just like we have for the past 32 years, Maia Midwifery & Fertility helps you conceive in a way that affirms who you are and how you choose to build your family.  Author, midwife and donor conception expert Liam Kali LM has ushered thousands of families through the process of conceiving a child through love and science.  

Read Liam's recently published paper in Fertility & Sterility, Therapeutic Donor Insemination for LGBTQ+ families: a systematic review

Liam provides elements of care that are missing in most fertility clinics, helps you navigate health care systems to get what you need, and supports you in making the decisions that are based on the evidence - not cookie cutter approaches designed for infertility that increase cost without shortening the time to pregnancy as happens in most fertility clinics.  No matter if you are at the very beginning or you have been trying for a while, nor whether you live near us or far away, at Maia you can access informational consultations, clinical fertility care, in-home or in-clinic IUI with sperm washing, and fertility supplies, classes and support groups to assist you every step of the way. 

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What makes our practice unique

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We specialize in donor conception, not infertility

Current scientific evidence is now proving what we have known all along: low-tech, individualized care results in higher success rates with less risk for families seeking donor conception, compared to routine protocols, unnecessary tests and costly interventions that have been designed for people with infertility. (Bressler 2020, Carpinello 2021, Kop 2022) However, most fertility doctors only care for our community as an afterthought, and therefore most clinics do not provide clinically appropriate options for families seeking donor insemination.

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We center LGBTQ+ families and solo parents by choice

Everyone deserves a fertility provider who understands their needs and provides care in a way that affirms who they are, because the goal is not just to become pregnant, it's to become a parent - which is infused with every aspect of who you are!  Gender inclusivity, queer positivity, and celebration of all forms of intentional parenthood is at the heart of all we do. By contrast, most fertility clinics lack LGBTQ+ sensitivity and present barriers to care that can result in unnecessary delays, increase cost, and undermine emotional well-being on the path to parenthood.

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We can provide IUI in the comfort of your home

Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) is a low tech procedure that need not happen in a busy, impersonal clinic environment. We bring sterile supplies to perform the IUI procedure in your own home, including equipment to prepare a fresh sample (sperm washing) if needed. For those coming to us from out of town, or for any other reason you would rather not be at home, we also provide IUI and sample prep in our West Seattle office.

Establish care for IUI with an Initial Fertility Visit
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We take the time for trauma-informed pelvic care

We commonly hear statements like, “That was the most comfortable exam I’ve ever had,” or “Wow, I didn’t know it could be like this!” We take our time, get your permission every step of the way, and ensure you are as comfortable as you can possibly be throughout the IUI procedure. Getting the timing right is part of the trick too, because that’s when your cervix is most open and IUI is easiest - not to mention giving you the best chances for success.

Read about timing and trauma-informed IUI in Liam's book, Queer Conception
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We build community among the families we serve

Our specialized programs for LGBTQ+ and solo parents by choice include conception groups, pregnancy groups, childbirth and lactation education, and early parenting support programs. Staying connected with community builds resilience and helps new parents cope with the stressors of caring for a newborn.  Families who participate in our programs throughout pregnancy and early parenthood tend to stay connected for years to come.

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We do everything we can to increase access to care

Not in Seattle? No worries! We care for families across the US and Canada via tele-health, and we are actively training community-based midwives to increase access to local, trauma-informed IUI services. For many families in our care, we provide everything but the IUI (including ordering lab work) and help you locate a provider who can do the IUI procedure when you need it.

Send your local midwife to Liam's training course
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Although my clinical practice is focused on making babies, at its core, my practice is about making parents. My work as a midwife is to utilize clinical knowledge and procedural skills alongside counseling, education, and community building. From my perspective, it takes all of these to truly nurture and protect each individual’s transition to parenthood.

Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-to-Be

This groundbreaking resource provides a comprehensive antidote to a culture and medical system that all too often overlooks the LGBTQ+ community’s unique needs. Here, you’ll find up-to-date guidance for navigating complex medical, social and financial decisions throughout the baby-making process, with sidebars offering guidance for reproductive health professionals.

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